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		<title>By: Ken Crawford</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ken Crawford]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Aug 2006 02:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brian, welcome.Â Â I&#039;m glad you visited.

Yeah, the employer matching is really a different thing because it is not used by the entity trying to get donations. Instead it is a general encouragement to donate charitably. Or said another way, they are trusting you to direct THEIR charitable donations instead of using their money to direct YOUR charitable donations.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brian, welcome.Â Â I&#8217;m glad you visited.</p>
<p>Yeah, the employer matching is really a different thing because it is not used by the entity trying to get donations. Instead it is a general encouragement to donate charitably. Or said another way, they are trusting you to direct THEIR charitable donations instead of using their money to direct YOUR charitable donations.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Conaghan</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2006 15:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[First of all, I agree that sometimes I feel the way you do.  Either give or don&#039;t, don&#039;t put conditions.

On the other hand, I have a couple places where I do like it:

#1:  My employer matches donations to any school, including Catholic schools.  Do they actually care about Holy Redeemer, St. Gregory&#039;s, or St Eustacius in particular?  Would they donate to them if I did not?  Clearly not, but part of encouraging me to donate there is their matching program.

#2:  After Katrina I donated a large sum to Catholic Charities to help with relief.  Beyond that, I wanted to encourage those under me to also donate to a relief agency of their choice.  I had donated the number I felt was right in my heart, but would have been willing to give more to encourage others.  In the end I decided not to, because I do not trust myself enough to not favor those who donate creating a quid pro quo.  I always feel better asking for money from those who have power over me rather than the other way around.

So, what do you think?  Is it a goodness to say, in my heart I want to give this much because I believe in this charity ... and beyond that I am willing to give this much more to encourage other people to give, which is a goodness in and of itself.

Thanks for being thought provoking,
Brian]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, I agree that sometimes I feel the way you do.  Either give or don&#8217;t, don&#8217;t put conditions.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I have a couple places where I do like it:</p>
<p>#1:  My employer matches donations to any school, including Catholic schools.  Do they actually care about Holy Redeemer, St. Gregory&#8217;s, or St Eustacius in particular?  Would they donate to them if I did not?  Clearly not, but part of encouraging me to donate there is their matching program.</p>
<p>#2:  After Katrina I donated a large sum to Catholic Charities to help with relief.  Beyond that, I wanted to encourage those under me to also donate to a relief agency of their choice.  I had donated the number I felt was right in my heart, but would have been willing to give more to encourage others.  In the end I decided not to, because I do not trust myself enough to not favor those who donate creating a quid pro quo.  I always feel better asking for money from those who have power over me rather than the other way around.</p>
<p>So, what do you think?  Is it a goodness to say, in my heart I want to give this much because I believe in this charity &#8230; and beyond that I am willing to give this much more to encourage other people to give, which is a goodness in and of itself.</p>
<p>Thanks for being thought provoking,<br />
Brian</p>
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