One of the big takeaways I had from Fr. Reese’s session was from a story he told about an unnamed theologian who was called to Rome to talk with Benedict when he was still Cardinal Ratzinger.  The theologian was obviously nervous and was pleasantly surprised when having dinner with Ratzinger the night before the official meeting.  Ratzinger was relaxed and lighthearted.  He was making jokes and was genuinely interested in the life of the theologian.  As a result, he was a little taken back when the next day at the official meeting Ratzinger had a long litany of complaints and expected corrections.

What struck me about this is how common it is for all of us to assume that those who criticize or punish us do not love us.  As Christians and parents we fully understand the concept when we’re the ones doing the disciplining but as soon as the tables are turned we instinctively assume that the person doing the disciplining does not like us or at the very least is mean-spirited.

I think as Christians we must be VERY conscious about this natural attitude particularly in regards to matters within the Church.  If we are going to be able to spread the Christian message we must be able to live it and this includes both being able to rebuke and take rebukes with charity and love.

 

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